Stacey Martino helps people who feel stuck, frustrated and helpless with the challenges that intimate relationship brings. Stacey firmly believes that it absolutely does NOT take two to tango! Through targeted, strategic private coaching, programs and events for her Relationship Transformation System™, Stacey empowers you to transform your intimate relationship without your partner needing to participate!
Trained and certified by Tony Robbins and Cloe Madanes, Stacey is a certified marriage educator and divorce preventionist.
What does being an Everyday Goddess mean to you?
To me, being an everyday goddess means living fully as your best and most authentic self! Every day living more fully into who you really are. Stepping forward in courage and authenticity to be the unique, flawed and beautiful GIFT that you truly are on this planet. Am everyday goddess treasures that unique and flawed beauty in all people she encounters! That’s what makes her so magnetic and deliciously attractive to all who meet her!
At what age did you awaken to the presence of the Divine Feminine and would you describe it as a sudden awakening or a gentle unfolding?
Ironically, I was BORN as a Divine Feminine ray of sunshine! Every memory, every story, every picture of me displayed this so clearly! I was a bright and feminine force of nature. Isn’t it so interesting how as kids we often end up repressing our very special uniqueness to be more like what others want us to be? At some point along my journey, I made all of my divine feminine WRONG and shut down that part of me to become a different version of myself that ironically people called the “Ice Princess”.
It wasn’t until I was 37 years old that I had a divine awakening back into my authentic Divine Feminine. And I’ve been cultivating that authentic part of myself, boldly, ever since!
What roles in your life had to transform in order for you to live authentically?
Well, the truth is that I transformed massively. So everything that I touched transformed too! My relationships with family and friends, my work, my parenting and certainly my intimate relationship! For me, it was a progression as I became comfortable in my own skin. I felt safest to be fully present in my Divine Feminine first with just my husband and our children. Then as I got more confident, I expanded to my friends and family. The last was to bring my full authentic feminine energy into work (at the time I worked in a corporate environment). Today, every day I teach women how to open to their feminine energy. I still encourage women to take baby steps and make it a progression! Start where you feel the most safe and loved!
What have been some of the greatest inner gifts you’ve experienced since stepping into your feminine power?
Oh my, there are so many! Honestly, being ALL of who I am, all the time is the most freeing and delicious experience of life! Since every day I show up as my best and most authentic self, I am unapologetic for who I am every day! Life is a truly magnificent adventure when you see it through this lens!
In my amazing love affair with my husband Paul, my stepping fully into my feminine radiance has allowed him to deeply root himself in his mature masculine presence! There really are no words for how magnificent it is to be with a man who is rooted and immovable in his masculine. He protects me fiercely and clears a path for me to lead me to every goal, wish or dream I have in the world! I am able to live fully in my authentic divine feminine every day as I surrender to Paul’s masculine presence in our intimate relationship! We have created an unshakable love and unleashed passion that exceeds anything either of us every thought was possible to experience in life!!!!
Can you share some of your favorite sacred feminine rituals?
My feminine rituals are the things that bring me into my best and most authentic self, they are the things that make me divinely happy and open!! I love to use music, dancing, playing, laughing, being silly, reading, walking outside and gathering with the people I love in the world! With my husband, it’s super easy for me, my ritual is to surrender to him in his presence and delight in his strength, protection, navigation, leadership and ultimate dedication to my every desire!
Is there a particular Goddess that you are intimately drawn to and why?
Actually, the Goddesses that I am STRONGLY drawn to today are the Everyday Goddesses that I am blessed to have around me. Like you Mary Pritchard, Lisa Marie Rosati, Linda Joy, Fabienne Fredrickson, Mal Duane, Lorie Marrero, Tatyana Vroman, Sage Robbins and so many other beautiful Everyday Goddesses that I am blessed to surround myself with! Every one of these women is FIERCELY dedicated to being their best and most authentic self every day! Every woman who lives from that place inspires me and draws me in!
Is there a personal message that you would like to share with women?
If there is ONE gift that I can share with you from my personal journey to my Divine Feminine, it’s that femininity is an energy of openness! That’s all it is ladies. It has nothing to do with your hair, your makeup or how you dress. It’s not the “idea” you have in your HEAD. And it’s NOT weakness. Feminine energy is your best and most authentic self stepping forward with courage and vulnerability to BE who you truly are….no matter what the “risk”! That is greatness and it takes tremendous STRENGTH! When you want to journey more into your Divine Feminine just ask yourself ONE question “How open do I feel?” (0-10). Anytime you feel “closed” in protection, withdrawing, punishing, or whatever that energy is for you, that is your masculine. When you feel truly OPEN in your energy, that is your Divine Feminine! You may have fear around opening into your feminine. Based on my journey, I can tell you…..it’s TOTALLY worth it! Be who you really are darling! That’s what we ALL want for you!
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